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Behind our stress, clutter, and confusion is an infinitely spacious place one might call Stillness or Joy. This is our natural state of being, yet we hardly know it because we are caught in a web of attachment to things, worries, and outcomes.
“Clutter.” It is not just what you see spilling out of your closet. It is also the noise spinning around in your head, old habits that no longer serve and support you, stuck energy. Clutter is any thing or thought that gets in the way of experiencing your best life. (Neatniks, this includes you too!)
Your Spacious Self is no ordinary how-to guide: it is culmination of years of study, deep inquiry, and personal experience.
Here’s what you’ll experience that is different (and why most clearing efforts, though well-intentioned, do not last):
- Clutter is defined broadly as the result of imbalance, (mis)perception, stuck energy. This book identifies the myriad ways we humans hold on and create imbalance in our lives.
- Clutter is not the problem, it is the holding on to it that creates a force-field of stuckness that clouds your perceptions and paralyzes your life. It is not the clutter but how you relate to it that needs your attention and compassion.
- Clearing is not linear: Clearing in this book in not a finite task that you do when you have the time, energy, or willpower, but an ongoing – daily – practice that promotes well-being and letting go. It is a journey that balances “doing” with a mindful “non-doing” – a receptive approach that invites you to slow-down, observe, allow, listen, trust, surrender.
- Clearing side-effects are normal: Feeling overwhelmed (stuck, confused, congested…), when clearing out a closet, for example, is a normal and welcome by-product of the journey. It is what happens naturally when you release stuck energy. Allowing these “weather patterns” to arise without fixing, changing, or personalizing them, is the key to lasting change.
- Talking about clearing IS clearing: Your Spacious Self is unique because it gives you the option and the tools to set up and maintain you own guided six-week support group. It shows you how to organize a “Clearing Circle” with your friends or book group, and includes discussion topics that are easy to modify to suit any group or size.
- Clearing never ends; it just gets deeper, juicier, and more fun: Written by a gifted teacher who knows how to engage and inspire her audience, Your Spacious Self has expanded to include a multi-media app for your smartphone and reading tablet plus a Full Online Course with audio meditations, a cutting-edge online journal, and exercises designed deepen your clearing experience even more! The Online Course is the perfect companion to the book!
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Your Spacious Self outlines one of the simplest pathways to freedom. It is based on this simple truth: When we tend our homes in small ways, we take care of ourselves. When we take care of ourselves, we come back into balance. When we restore balance, we bring peace to the world!
Your Spacious Self offers a wealth of wisdom, tools, and clearing support designed to help you…
- Identify beliefs that create internal noise and external clutter.
- Find out why your buttons get pressed by certain people and places.
- Discover how clearing even just one paper clip promotes well being and lasting change.
- Experience the nourishing power of “putting away every day.”
- Feel less attached to a particular outcome and take things less personally.
- Keep going when you don’t have the energy or you’re not in the mood.
- Experience how self care supports release, and real ease.
- Learn how to start your own clearing support group with your friends or book group.
- Ease into new habits of clearing that are fun, feel good, and will last a lifetime.
- Feel more in the flow and experience the true meaning of lightening up!
Shift your mindset about clearing:
from a tedious exercise in throwing things away,
to a gentle journey of softening your grip…
and letting go!
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Stephanie’s award-winning book (now in its second edition) takes you on a revealing, uplifting, and nourishing journey of clearing, self-discovery, and letting go. Ease into new habits of clearing that feel good and last a lifetime. Even if you don't think you have "clutter" this book is for you!
Teacher, author, and internationally-known expert in space clearing and self-healing, Stephanie brings 35 years of experience to her inspirational clearing programs, consultations, and writing. Her passion is helping people clear a path to their true nature and best life – one moment, drawer, living space, or good laugh at a time.

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